If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader. -John Quincy Adams
Often times, we find inspiration from the strangest and most unexpected people and places. In my particular case, I found it from the people that I have possibly inspired. I don’t mean for that to sound a little self centered or arrogant but the bottom line is that they have inspired me and I’m appreciative.
When I was in my marathon training mode and even after I finished my first and second marathons, people were constantly asking me questions about the marathon.
26.2 miles sounded awfully far to a lot people. Suddenly, I became a running expert and people were asking me all kinds of questions about training, nutrition, running logs, maximum heart rates, aches, pains, and upcoming running events that we could run together. Their interest in my running and training was inspiring me and I could not get enough. I wanted to prove to everyone that I could do it. Little did I know that I was inspiring some of them too.
After I ran my second marathon, a friend of mine, Steve Bailey was one of these guys asking a lot of questions. He was determined to run a marathon and wanted me to train with him. Excitedly, I agreed and we embarked on our training.
We registered for the Walt Disney Marathon and we had many training runs together. However, we were doing really well together until I hit the wall.
In the Fall of 2009, my life was in a whirlwind and I was being pulled in too many directions. Many times, I wanted to call Steve and tell him, “Dude, I’m sorry but I can’t do it.” I could not do that Steve and I knew that he was eagerly awaiting this trip. I hit some of my life’s darkest hours in late 2009 but I perservered. Needless to say, I completed my third marathon in January 2010 but it took me 1 hour longer to run it this time. I even had to walk, at least, 2-3 miles of the marathon, but I completed it nonetheless, and I got the shirt and medal!
Once that marathon was completed, I was done. I checked out of running. With the banking industry in a depression and my employer on the brink of insolvency, I hit rock bottom. Things were not going my way in my personal and professional life. When people asked if I was still running and I told them no, I could see the look of disappointment on their faces.
Suddenly inspiration game from a lot people that I never suspected.
1) Angela Uphold. She is a co-worker and a beginning runner. Recently, she was asking me all kinds of questions about running. She won’t believe it, but her questions about running inspired me to start my marathon training again.
I’m sure Josh was inspired from other places, but he was recently asking me about long runs and how to overcome leg pain during long runs (some runners call this dead legs). Josh inspired me to run again because I wanted to run the Disney Marathon with him in January.
She registered for the Walt Disney World Marathon but was unable to run it this year. I know she will complete one soon. She loves to run half marathons and is pretty good at it too. I’m always inspired by her witty humor.
Marathon Sweetheart is the name of her blog. Here is the link: http://marathonsweetheart.com/. I have been following her blog and I know what she is feeling in anticipation of her first marathon. I want that feeling back again and she has inspired me to train once again. Good luck Brittny.
Your banner photo is the bomb! I love it 🙂 Thank you so much for referencing me as a source of inspiration. There is a sense of wonder that we have as first timers, then as we keep running and feel the pain of the marathons, we maybe get less enthusiastic about it… Keep that curiosity and passion my friend. Cannot wait to virtually train with ya 😉
By: Marathon Sweetheart on December 8, 2010
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